When my wife first mentioned hiring a doula and when I actually understood what a doula did, I was skeptical. I'll admit that almost up until my wife was actually in labor, I remained skeptical. I was confident that I could provide all of the support my wife needed and whatever I couldn't do the midwife and hospital staff could. However, my wife's decision to have an unmediated birth made me more open to the idea of a doula as she felt it would make her birth a little bit easier. My wife also felt a doula would benefit me as I would have to encourage and assist my wife as I watched her in pain; something we both knew would be hard for me.
We met with Tanisha several times before my wife went into labor and each time she came with something specifically for me that would allow me to prepare alongside my wife and have the information to provide support. She showed me massage techniques and gave me a list of useful things to do during labor.
During labor and delivery Tanisha was a lifesaver. My wife labored at home for a while through some pretty rough contractions and Tanisha was there helping us all get through it. During the 'frantic' rush to the hospital Tanisha helped everyone remain calm and ensured we had everything we needed.
At the hospital Tanisha continuously supported my wife and in turn, myself. It was truly a team effort and I would highly recommend her.
The best thing about Tanisha is that her support didn't stop after our son was born. She has continued to check in on us and has been a big help for our family.
-Wale A
November 21, 2016
Just For You Doula & Lactation Services
Birth Fee: Not specified
Postpartum Rate: Not specified