Testimonial for Stephanie Sauer Pasternak, CD(DONA), CLC
When I became pregnant for the second time, I started searching for a doula to help me with my goal of healing a vbac with my son. I had a very traumatic experience with my daughter’s birth and I was determined to have a different experience the second time. During the consultation with Stephanie, I knew she was the perfect fit. She validated all my feelings about my first birth and I left the call feeling so empowered. Throughout my pregnancy, she was a sounding board for all my questions and helped me mentally as much as physically. She helped me compile lists of questions that were important for vbacs and was always there to check-in after appointments with my OB. When labor started hot and heavy, she came over quickly to help me manage debilitating back labor. Thanks to her support, I was able to stick it out at home way longer than I would have been able to and I showed up at the hospital 8cm dilated - a huge mental victory! My OB was on vacation and the OB on call gave me a hard time about trying for a vbac. Stephanie was kind but fierce as she advocated for me. I was able to focus on my body and my baby, knowing she had my back and wouldn’t let any unnecessary inventions take place. Not only was my son born by the most beautiful vbac, Stephanie helped me start my breastfeeding journey off successfully in the recovery room. The pictures she took of his birth are unreal and I’m SO happy to have them to look back on. This was something I wouldn’t have thought I wanted and I’m forever grateful for the memories. I’m sure there are many amazing doulas but Stephanie treated me and my family like her family. She brought special art activities for me to do with my daughter to help her prepare for her brother’s birth. Every interaction felt so comfortable and I left feeling so empowered. She was such a special part of my son’s birth and I will always be grateful to her!
-Sara Smith
August 22, 2023
Stephanie Sauer Pasternak, CD(DONA), CLC
Bergen Doula - Birth Doula & Lactation Counseling
Birth Fee: $1950 to $3500
