A wave of relief came over me in our first meeting with Mari when she described that birth was a shared experience with my husband and I. Her role, she explained, was about teaching us about what we can expect in birth and supporting my husband so that he would be able to be there for me fully. She helped us put together a birth plan that was easy to understand at a glance- my OB was impressed when she saw it!
When it came to my daughter’s birthday, I felt confident that I could have a birth that would leave me feeling empowered- even if things didn’t go according to plan. Mari was just the presence I needed- she followed my lead, gently nudged me when I needed it, and provided strength for us both. Throughout the birth, I turned to her to ground me about my progress. She gave my husband the assurance he needed to focus on me and coach me through. Together, they lifted me up. She helped relieve pressure on my hips when the contractions were worsening and read my cues on how I wanted to push.
Two moments stuck with me the most: 1) during contractions, I felt the need to grunt and moan rhythmically, Mari and my husband joined me which made me feel so comforted and unashamed. I could really be present. 2) when I was pushing and reaching my end, I looked over to Mari to ask if we were almost there. In that moment I had so much trust in her- I knew she could give me the assurance that I needed to give the needed effort.
My husband and I are so grateful to Mari for helping us through this lifetime experience. She helped us have the dream birth we both wanted. Without a shadow of a doubt- this was the best investment for our peace of mind.
-Gabriela Tamburino
July 31, 2023
Nutere Doula LLC
Birth Fee: $2350
Postpartum Rate: $75