One of the most momentous moments in my life was shrouded in anxiety and overwhelming fear. A pregnancy that had its nuances from the very beginning was navigated through more easily while I had Lori by my side. From the outset, she helped develop a plan with my medical team for what was expected to be a complicated delivery. Though a planned c-section, the doctors did not know how things would unfold given my circumstances nor did they know how the pregnancy would play out. Whenever the fear of what could happen during the pregnancy and the looming delivery date overcame me (7 months of worries), I leaned into Lori's knowledge and comfort throughout the pregnancy. On the day of the delivery, Lori's established plan with the medical team to accompany me into the operating room was put into place. I thank God for her presence as I navigated through some difficulties during the surgery. Lori knew the right times to come to my bedside. She seamlessly provided support without interfering with the medical team. While I recovered (unbeknownst to my husband, I was safe and recovering), Lori advocated for communication from the nursing team to my husband about my status. It was Lori who held my baby in her arms and loved on her since I couldn't. It was Lori who supported my husband through what he describes as one of the hardest moments in his life, (one which he said he could never go through again). It is Lori, who my daughter lovingly refers to as a second mom 13 years later. Lori was relatable, experienced, and considerate. She made an otherwise difficult experience easier to navigate for all members of my family.
-Melinda Aldrich
October 11, 2022
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