Emily helped us through a critical moment in our lives that has left a lasting impression.
First, Emily was a step ahead of everyone in the room, from beginning to end. She was pulling things out of nooks and crannies in that room like it was her second home. The nurses were impressed.
What was extremely crucial was her explaining the pros and cons of every intervention that the medical team was proposing and making us feel empowered to choose what felt best. The baby was was not letting things go our way, but we felt in control! And we were, with her by our side. And that is not easy in that environment. Her explanations were always, always more clear, more full of context, more neutral and more empowering than the medical team's.
In her final act, as things we're getting much more intense, she did two things that I'm so grateful for...
First, with two awesome midwives and a nurse all knowing my wife's goals for delivery, it was only Emily that pushed for a small tweak to what everyone was doing that turned out to make all the difference. In our lives our original goals can feel like they don't matter in the enormity or urgency of the moment, but giving up on them too easily can lead to regret later. Emily honored my wife's wishes in that moment like nobody else in that room could.
Second, at the very moment of delivery, her strong, comforting presence allowed my wife to find a strong, peaceful place inside her that was truly inspiring to witness. It brought tears to the eyes of some nurses, and all were impressed by her fortitude and courage. I know it was my wife's body and her heart and determination that impressed us all, but Emily allowed her to find that place inside her.
We have a birth story that didn't exactly go according to plan. But when I think back to that day, it's with nothing but pure happiness and pride. Emily had a real impact on our lives that day, and I won't ever forget it.
-Nick Fivas
September 21, 2022
Salt City Doula
Birth Fee: $1200 to $1700
Postpartum Rate: $35 to $40