Cher's sweet energy and calm demeanor were absolutely necessary, as my labor became a bit of a whirlwind that included driving to the birthing center twice (30 minutes away), and both times being sent home for not being dilated enough. Ultimately, we ended up in a hospital, as there were a some concerns with the baby's movements after about 22 hours of laboring. A hospital birth was what I was dreading the most, but Cher, and her magical bag of tricks, had items to make laboring in that environment more serene and personal. And, I felt incredibly supported as she advocated for me with the medical staff. While laboring at home, she also used massage and music to help put me at ease.
The laboring felt like an eternity, but having another woman there, who has given birth, made me feel a lot more confident and empowered for the event ahead. Otherwise it would have just been me and my male partner, and although we could have managed together, Cher made it possible for both of us to be more present with the added support, and rest when needed. Her presence felt like an old friend visiting by remaining at hand and calm the entire time. It was such a wonderful reminder for me not to freak out - because I did have a couple moments where I knew I would have lost my cool had she not been there.
Communication with Cher before and after labor was friendly, pleasant and easy. I always felt heard and cared for. You're definitely in good hands with Cher! I believe that and have already recommended her to a pregnant acquaintance, and will continue recommend her to any other pregnant women I encounter who are on the lookout for a doula. No plans as of yet, however if I do decide on another child, I would love for Cher to be part of the laboring and birthing team once again. It truly was so much more enriching and empowering to have an experienced and knowledgeable, objective woman there by my side.
-Delia
January 21, 2022
Mama Cher Doula Services
Birth Fee: $2000 to $2800
Postpartum Rate: $35 to $40