Testimonial for Grace Van Bruwaene from Kirsten

Testimonial for Grace Van Bruwaene

My experience with a doula, and specifically Grace, was a game-changing factor to my 2nd Pregnancy, birth (planned repeat Csection) and immediate post-partum week being such a better experience than my first. After having had an emergency Csection with my first, and dealing with all the challenges that presented, I knew that if I was to have another pregnancy, regardless of delivery method, I would employ the services of a doula, as their support and services extend so much beyond the actual 'birth' part of the pregnancy process.

Having had a prior Csection, I knew the drill, but having Grace alongside not only me for the pregnancy, but my husband as well, was such a huge support and source of calm. Grace helped us to keep our focus, advocate for ourselves during this vulnerable time, and also kept us relaxed. Additionally, I had someone to be there for me, while my husband could be there for the baby. As the Csection restricted my mobility for the first 12 hours, having an extra set of hands and expertise with feedings was invaluable.

I can honestly say that without Grace I don't think I would have continued on with breastfeeding. Day 4/5 was by far the hardest and my husband reached out to her. Within a couple of hours she was at my home. It was, without a doubt, what helped me feel better, reasssured me and gave me perspective.... it was what I didn't know I needed but am so thankful my partner did, and that is because of the relationship we both formed with Grace.

I cannot emphasize enough the benefits of a doula, and specifically those of Grace. From providing a shoulder to lean on, reassurance, resources to make informed decisions throughout the pregnancy and beyond, to rubbing my swollen feet in the hospital, keeping me focused and encouraging me to speak up about my wishes in order to have the best pregnancy and birth experience that was right for me.

-Kirsten

May 21, 2019