We did not have a chance to meet Emily face to face until the day of labor because she was our back up doula. The first time I met her was when I was already in active labor at the triage. I was a first time mom so you can imagine the anxiety. As soon as we met, I immediately felt calm, open, and confident. She came in and quickly accessed the situation - how I was coping with pain, how my partner was handling, and the actual situation at the hospital and found her sweet spot. She was extremely professional, knowledgable and humble. She brought in a tiny “marry poppins” bag that was filled with everything I needed, and things I didn’t even think of.
There was not one moment she was not fully engaged and supportive. Even when she was quietly sitting back or quickly stepping outside. That’s when she was proactively finding out different ways to support whatever came our way. Whether it’s comforting my mother who doesn’t speak English, checking with nurses and doctors to get further updates, finding new ways to give me a different way to distract from contractions, she was extremely helpful.
She would know exactly what to say, how to say and when to say to for pain management. In between contractions, I would have questions about the process and she always made me feel heard and reminded me that this is my journey and I get to choose. She had my back.
If you’re looking for someone who can come into a chaotic situation fully prepared, knowledgeable, and extremely cool headed, I strongly recommend Emily without a doubt. She helped in every way making this birth experience not only less painful but also much more meaningful and beautiful. My partner and I strongly recommend Emily to other expecting mothers with no hesitation.
-Jane Lee
August 25, 2018
The Flying Doula
Birth Fee: $2500