In my first labor my only support was my partner. It started well, I got to L&D almost fully dilated, but my baby was posterior. The attending OB was new at the hospital and seemed confused. She did not believe my baby was posterior; she urged me to lie supine and broke my waters. I pushed for hours, but my baby was not given the chance to rotate and was stuck. I ended up having an epidural to relax my pelvic floor and, with huge effort and luck, delivered vaginally. I loved labor, but also felt disappointed and oppressed: I was put through unnecessary suffering, interventions, and threat of a C-section. I lacked the knowledge, confidence and clarity to defend myself. With my second, I wanted a natural and joyful birth, so I sought stronger support though hiring a doula. I chose Joyce because she was experienced, realistic, gave clear and prompt answers, and knew my medical team. Joyce shared critical information about my options and rights, helped me write a very specific birth plan, and made me feel empowered to make the medical team hear my voice. I felt prepared for every possible scenario. When the time came, Joyce helped me determine I was in labor and met me in the ER. She helped me through my contractions in triage while the nurses took their time to confirm that my baby was coming; and to move into L&D, which was challenging, as I was unable to walk. My waters broke. The attending OB was one I knew and trusted, and my baby was well positioned. Joyce reminded me I wanted a natural labor, so I evaded being hooked to an IV. My baby arrived very fast, and Joyce supported me throughout. She stayed while I recovered, and visited after to make sure we were doing well. Joyce also introduced me to the Positive Birth community, connecting me with other women who find birth as meaningful as I do. This birth was wonderful and helped me heal the trauma of the first one. Joyce was a crucial element in it, and I am deeply grateful.
-Masha O
February 12, 2018
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