Testimonial for Suzanne DeSelms
After the initial excitement of the news of our pregnancy gave way to the anxiety of actually giving birth, I began to put together a plan to give myself and our baby the best start possible. I knew immediately that I needed a team who supported me in my decisions and birthing goals. My first birth was arduous; a 44 hour labor with a medical team who at every minor hiccup panicked like a herd of gazelles, framing their “interventions” as medically necessary and leaving us to feel vulnerable and scared. My husband kept telling me how he felt so helpless.
Our search led us to finding Suzanne and after meeting her, I knew she was confident, knowledgeable and would be integral in helping me accomplish the natural, calm birth I imagined. The time from my first contraction to our baby’s birth was less than 3 hours, but Suzanne arrived as soon as we needed her. The intensity of the contractions were hard and fast with little to no break in between. Suzanne was there; providing counter pressure, providing gentle reminders and a supportive touch. She never took space from my husband, but jumped in when needed, softly reminding of my goals and giving me the skills to achieve them.
In short, I want to tell you to stop reading and just hire her. She really takes the time to listen and understand the birth you are trying to achieve. Even when met with a new plan, she was there, explaining the pros and cons, helping guide me to my own decisions, reminding me of my wants and how to use my strength to advocate for myself. One of the greatest moments was when I thought for sure I had hit my limit and yelled out “I can’t do this!”, and she simply said back “You ARE doing this!” She is there for you, your partner, and the new beginning you are about to embark on. You will not regret having Suzanne as a member of your birthing team. She is truly spectacular.
-Renee Lynette
February 06, 2018
Suzanne DeSelms
Waiting With You
Birth Fee: $2400 to $3400
