We weren’t looking for a doula because we wanted some sort of privileged or mystical birth, but we did it because we are nerdy and knew the statistics show that for optimal health and overall outcomes for baby, mother, and partners even, we really should get a doula. (I add this just in case you are undecided whether the “expense” is necessary.) She was the best investment that months after my baby’s birth we are still benefiting from (ask her about The Haven). I’m not sure how I can assure you of this in 2000 characters or less, but I can tell you that when we consider having another child, our budget plans include Joli as a top priority. From the interview we knew we just had to hire her because both my husband and I were able to open up and chat with her comfortably even though neither of us is good with strangers. Immediately I knew that if my husband could be at ease with her, then I needn’t worry about him feeling overwhelmed or alone at the birth, and I needed him to be comfortable so that I could get comforted by him. The prenatal visits with her were great and I loved hearing my baby, smelling the oils, and just bonding with my baby and husband via sounds, smells, and questions (hire her, you’ll understand what I mean). We decided to take the Rebel Birth class with her and Kathleen W. and it was just so much fun even my husband looked forward going to class. The day of the birth things got pretty crazy but I remember that as soon as a nurse told me that my husband had called Joli and she was on her way, I just felt like I got a bit of control back, because she had spent so many hours with us before, that I knew she could articulate my needs, fears, objections, and wishes if needed. A person can only advocate for you as well as they know you, and Joli will spend limitless hours (literally) giving the term “doula” its true meaning. Meet her and leave it up to your gut whether to hire her. You will.
-Nora Ventura
February 09, 2017
The Painted Doula
Birth Fee: $1000 to $2800