My name is Heather. I'm 33 years old and on 11/06/16 I gave birth to my first child. His father and I had been trying to educate ourselves by reading books and researching things on the internet. We attended birthing classes and watched videos of natural births. I thought we had it all figured out and were well prepared. He insisted we get a doula though because he felt that he would be to nervous to assist me. I reluctantly agreed and asked my midwife who she would recommend. Without hesitation she said "April Dawn!" I gave her a call and we chatted for a while about what was important to us as far as how we wanted the labor and delivery to go. She made me feel in that one phone call like we were old friends and she knew exactly how I felt about the importance of having a natural birth. Once we met with her we were instantly comfortable with her and knew she was the doula for us. With her knowledge, wisdom and insight she pointed out that I was exhibiting signs of preeclampsia (swelling in my feet, legs and face) and recommended a special diet. Within 3 days the swelling was gone and I felt like I had energy again! The best part was I knew I was no longer at risk of those things leading to a possible c-section. She also told me what foods would help me have more efficient contractions and dilate better. Once I was in active labor I found myself doubting my ability to continue with a natural birth but her encouragement kept me strong. Her coping techniques kept me focusing on something other than the contractions and visualize being at the end with my baby. Looking back on that day I know she is the reason I was able to make it through and have the birth I wanted to have and can now be proud of myself and say "I did it!" I now know just how strong I am and we owe her a debt of gratitude for helping us welcome our beautiful son into the world. I can say with 100% certainty that when it's time for baby #2 we will be calling on her services again! :)
-Heather Tomarelli
December 05, 2016
The Mothered Momma
Birth Fee: $800 to $4500