I had a very unique situation because I ended up having to move to Richmond 2 weeks before my due date. I knew I wanted a natural birth and that a doula would really help me get that, but also knew with the timing of everything that it might not work out. I did a ton of research, and thought that if I was unable to get a doula, that I'd be able to handle it on my own. I could not have been more wrong! My labor progressed pretty quickly, but by the time I got to the hospital, I was dialated 7cm and hardly able to talk or think, nevermind remember even ONE thing I'd read in all my research! So if you are on the fence about getting a doula, I would HIGHLY recommend it. I would not have been able to get through it on my own.
That being said, every doula is different, and finding the right one is very important. I was so lucky that I found Melanie! In my first conversation with her, I felt immediately at ease with her and knew she would help me get the natural birth I was hoped to have. Because I was contacting her so last minute, she couldn't guarantee that she'd be able to be at my birth, just because she had other clients with due dates around the same time. However, fate was on my side, and she was able to be there when I went into labor. She was extremely helpful in keeping me calm and collected at home, giving me various exercises and things to help labor progress, which also helped keep me distracted. I felt safe laboring at home with her guidance, and by the time I got to the hospital, I was already dilated 7cm. Melanie met me there, which was also the first time I met her in person, but I was immediately at ease with her. She was by my side the whole time, keeping me focused, helping me manage the contractions. I could not imagine getting through without her there with me. She was truly amazing, and I feel lucky to have had her there to get me through! I will DEFINITELY have her with me if I have any other babies!
-Sinead Downing
February 04, 2016
A Brighter Birth
Birth Fee: $2000