I knew as soon as I got pregnant that I wanted to hire a doula to assist me with my pregnancy, labor, and birth experience. I had a high risk pregnancy - there were a lot of unknowns going into the pregnancy about how well my body would tolerate pregnancy and childbirth. I knew I would need to be taking a handful of medications througout pregnancy, and I didn't want to add additional complications with an epidural or c-section. I also knew that I wanted to hire someone who would work with my husband well, and who could communicate to him clearly and effectively too. Melinda got a good read on him, and worked effectively with both of us.
We chose Melinda because her manner is direct, but respectful. We felt the most relaxed and calm working with her, as we knew we could trust her completely. Given my situation, I wanted the best team possible assisting me - Melinda was definitely a key part of that team.
Melinda's expertise played a critical role in helping me achieve the childbirth I wanted - and in helping me avoid the risky complications I was concerned about. I felt that she had a complete understanding of my preferences and why they were in place. During labor, I hit a temporary rough patch - Melinda understood precisely where I was and what I was struggling with - and advised me appropriately the entire time. Even if this meant advising me against my original preferences, Melinda's advice was always sound and respectful to my overall goal.
As far as return on investment is concerned: for us, Melinda was worth every. single. penny. When hiring a doula, my husband was originaly wondering what a doula could do for us that would be worth the money. After the birth, both my mother and husband were enthusiastic that Melinda was the right choice, and was absolutely essential to my success.
-Katherine Smith
September 05, 2014
Calm and Confident Doula Care, LLC
Birth Fee: $2800 to $3600
