After taking every class related to pregnancy the hospital offered, I became really
nervous about giving birth when the nurses recommended NOT coming to the
hospital at the onset of labor. Since this was my first pregnancy I knew I
needed additional support. When a nurse mentioned she had used a Doula I
immediately went home and started my search as I was already 8 months pregnant.
I interviewed several Doulas’; however, I felt Tomecas was the
best fit for me and my husband. My water had broken and I was in active labor
when I went to the hospital. I wasn't dilating quick enough for my doctor so
she gave me Pitocin and increased it till the labor pains were so
intense and continuous I needed an epidural to cope. Tomecas was a great
support and helped me get the baby heart rate down when it increased due to
labor progression. She also fed me ice chips when the staff told me
I couldn't have anything to drink. Since I was having a large baby the doctor
was concerned and kept pushing for a C-section. She had already scheduled me a
week prior but I refused and insisted on allowing labor to start naturally.
After a few hours of trying Pitocin and having the baby heart rate increase and
having Tomecas help me get it back down, the doctor said continuing to do so
could potentially harm the baby and told me it was time to perform the
C-section. I could only have one person accompany me during the surgery so I
chose Tomecas. Unfortunately I didn't have the natural birth experience I
envisioned but I did have the support I needed to deliver a healthy baby. Tomecas
was a perfect fit for me and my husband and also got along well with my other
family members (including my pushy mother!). If I am fortunate enough to have
another viable pregnancy I definitely would not go to the hospital without my
Doula Tomecas there.
-Tanika Antonio
September 19, 2013
Omorose Blessings LLC
Birth Fee: $1500 to $3000
