Kelsey Baer

9/17/2026

There aren’t words to capture what Jesse and Melanie mean to my family. Jesse was our primary doula, and we were lucky enough to also get Melanie as our backup doula for part of my labor when Jesse was supporting another birth.

I cannot imagine my pregnancy, birth, and postpartum without her.  I was somewhat of a doula skeptic—I didn’t think we needed one. But when I found out I was having twins, I knew we would need the extra support.

It was important for my wife and I that we had an LGBT+ affirming doula who was also evidence-based. Jesse was always available for my (many!) questions throughout pregnancy and postpartum too.

Having twins was a big surprise, and quickly my plans and thoughts of what my birth would look like changed. She helped me feel prepared for all the possibilities, and supported me through labor to help me succeed in my goal of a vaginal delivery for both twins.

Jesse and Melanie were powerful advocates for me, especially when I wasn’t for myself. Whether it be for hydration, comfort items, or making decisions—they anticipated my needs before I even knew I had them. My wife has some medical anxiety, and both specifically paid attention to her and supported her along with me.

I am not sure what we would have done during labor without them. One twin ended up needing some NICU time, so my wife accompanied the baby and Jesse remained with me. Not only was she able to keep in contact with my wife, she supported me through some unexpected complications. I truly can’t imagine it without her.

In the midst of all of that, she got photos of the entire process. I have nothing but glowing, positive things to say. They undoubtedly have the same effect on all the families they work with, and anyone who chooses Jesse or Melanie as their doula is so lucky to gain their fierce advocacy, warmth, knowledge, skills, and compassion.