Elaine Arnold CD(PALS, DONA)
AVIV Birth Doula Services
Phone: (425) 344-7703
Birth Fee: $975 to $1200
Fee Details: I gratefully give a $100 fee reduction to military families. Low-income families can receive my doula services through Open Arms Perinatal Services www.openarmsps.org and request me by name.
Birth Doula Experience: 14 years
Clients per Month: 1 to 5Attends hospital births? All Hospitals
Birth Doula with Open Arms Perinatal Services
Languages spoken: Finnish, English
Service Area MapArea of practice: Renton, WA
My husband and I both are EXTREMELY thankful to have worked with Elaine Arnold. I loved having her there because I had done all of my prenatal classes with her so instead of having a stranger (I love nurses, but don't know many of them) coaching me through the process, I had a friend doing it. My husband loved it because Elaine was able to gently coach him through what he could do to help me. Elaine is one of those people that you instantly fall in love with. She is very knowledgeable and constant working to learn more. She is a ton of fun to be around and when the going gets tough (i.e. transition time!), she is one of the most soothing, comforting people that I know. Elaine has been with us for the birth of both of our children, and will definitely be there for any others that we have. She has always been available to answer any questions that we have had before or after birth. We LOVE Elaine!
I had a fantastic birth experience with Elaine! My labor nurse and my doctor both said she was the best doula they had seen, and although this was my first birth, I can't imagine a better doula experience.
Elaine was covering for a doula I had hired because my doula was at another birth, so I didn't actually meet Elaine until I was in active labor. She came in to the hospital room and I immediately knew that it was a good thing that she was there. Even though we never had a chance to discuss my needs/desires/fears ahead of time, she did exactly what I needed throughout the labor to keep me focused and get me through a pitocin-induced labor without drugs. She was encouraging and supportive, she had great methods to focus me through contractions, she distracted me well the 2 times I almost went for the epidural, and she also was very knowledgeable and useful in identifying issues that could have slowed down my labor.
Overall, I was very impressed with Elaine. Up until the day of labor I wasn't sure if I wanted a doula at my birth and boy, am I glad I had Elaine there!
Elaine was an excellent advocate and support person to have during our special delivery. Throughout the process of preparing for the birth, labor and post-partum, Elaine was accessible, accountable and always had our family’s best interests as her priority. Furthermore, her positive attitude, loving approach and extensive knowledge was extremely helpful when we needed to make decisions and required further support during medical complications. Although the birth plan did not go as expected (whose does??) we have a healthy, happy little boy and we are so glad that we had Elaine on our team to assist in the delivery of such a miracle for us! I highly recommend Elaine’s Doula services to any mother preparing for childbirth.
My husband and I worked with Elaine last year for the birth of our first child and it was a fantastic birth experience! From the weeks leading up to our son's birth, to the birth itself, and followup, we all felt extremely supported by Elaine. Elaine is a very easy person to get along with. From the first time I met her, I felt as though I'd known her forever. She has a natural "mom" vibe to her and is a great calming force.
We met with Elaine several times before the birth to go over expectations. Everything from going over our birth plan to answering questions of what to expect at each phase of the birth journey. We had taken a course in Hypnobirthing, so wanted to use that as our birth technique. Elaine has experience in Hynobirthing.
As is common with first births, mine went past the due date. Elaine called each day and would even call before going out on a run to make sure I wasn't in labor at that time. :) She talked me through my Braxton Hicks that seemed to mimic real contractions on a nightly basis. When labor really started, she met us at our house before we went to the hospital. Labor was relatively quick (5 hours from admission to birth), but my pushes were not too productive at first. Elaine suggested many different positions (on the toilet was comfortable) and I ended up giving birth on my side. During contractions, she was a great cheerleader and supportive when I was correctly pushing. Between contractions, Elaine was there to offer a cold rag, coconut water, encouraging me to relax, and also helping instruct my husband on what to do.
After our son was born, Elaine stayed with us for an hour. After the journey we went through together, my husband and I were sad to see her go.
She visited us about a week after our son's birth to see how everything from nursing to my general wellbeing was.
I'm hoping to have another child and I already know I want Elaine in the room with me.
To start off, it is very rare in life that you meet someone who is doing exactly what they are meant to be doing! Elaine has the experience, the knowledge and the training to help get you through the pregnancy and delivery, but she also has something more innate. She has an inner calm and patience that she was able to pass on to me during my 34 hours of labor.
We found Elaine off of this website with a bit of a "Hail Mary" last minute effort. My husband and I hadn't taken any classes, but were determined to have a natural birth at Swedish. Our doctor sort of laughed at us and said it would be a good idea to get a doula! We contacted Elaine with less than three weeks to go.
She came to our house, got us up to speed and helped us practice some relaxation techniques.
During labor Elaine was indispensable. She never got tired of fining new ways to help me deal with the pain and stay relaxed. My husband and I were exhausted and I know Elaine's support was able to give my husband some much-needed rest.
She also checked in after the birth to make sure everything was going well once we got back home! She really is a prenatal class, a birthing coach and a post partum/nursing coach all wrapped into one! And she is always excited to hear from you... Even when it is three in the morning and you are telling her your water just broke.
The birth of my first son ended up having a C-section. It was the most terrible experience and left me feeling angry and dissapointed because I was robbed of the joy of the natural birth experience. So when I was pregnant with my second son I was dertemined not to have anther C-section and it was in the seventh hour of labor that I then realized that I needed help breathing and staying focued on the primary goal, to give birth naturally. Elaine helped me stay foucused and breathe and when I had terrible back pain, she helped relieve the pain by applying presure and that at least decreased the pain by sixty percent. Also, when I was stuck at being dialated 8 cenimeters for three hours and felt hopeless, Elaine gave me hope and comfort because she has this way of soothing me and keeping my calm. Simply put, she was very nurturing, motherly and had this pleasantness about her. Because of having Elaine at the second birth, it hard to believe that I didn't want to have a natural birth the first time, it gave me hope knowing that I could have more safe and natural deliverlies without all of the drugs. I felt so proud of myself for accomplishing this amazing birth and it made me feel like I could do anything! Furthermore, I fell like I wouldn't have been able to have such a successful birth without Elaine at my side because she was such blessing. Without a doubt I would most definitly recommend this amazing doula to all of my friends and family because she also does have a medical backround and I even had my nurse tell me that Elaine was doing a better job then she. Even because the roles were competeling different, Elaine found it easy to work and deal with the medical staff because she understands what is going on. She was very proffesional, pleasant and caring. Once again, without a doubt I would recomend her to anyone.
Elaine came into my life exactly when I needed her. I didn't have the support from my child's father as I had hoped and even though I had support from friends and family, Elaine provided something they couldn't. It was very easy to relax and be open with Elaine. She is the epitome of the definition of a doula. She supported me physically and emotionally. She gave me the strength to plan my labor for what I needed and not worry about everyone else.
When I went into labor everything was quick. My contractions went from 2-4 minutes to 60 seconds apart in 2hrs. Elaine had to coach me over the phone. Just hearing her voice and knowing she was there helped me relax.
My daughter was born safely and healthy because of the wise choice to have a doula. Doctors can be too focused on the medicine and not the patient. Doulas like Elaine are your advocate and are solely focused on your well being and positive labor experience.
To put it simply, Elaine is amazing and wonderful, and everything I could ask for as a doula. I started my search for a doula a little late in the game, but I was lucky to have met Elaine. I liked her instantly. She was genuine and warm, friendly and cheerful, caring and sweet - all the things you would want for the person supporting you in your journey of giving birth. She was also informative, organized, professional, and resourceful. Before our initial meeting was over, I was sure I wanted her as my doula. Though we didn't have much physical time together before I gave birth, she was still very present - always checking in with me either by phone, text, or email. During our prenatal visits, she did everything in her power to make sure I was well informed and comfortable with everything going on and with everything I was feeling. Less than a month after I hired her, my beautiful baby boy was born by natural VBAC (vaginal delivery after c-section) with no problems at all thanks to her guidance and calming presence.
Through it all, Elaine was a constant support and provided so much comfort. She answered any questions I had, provided information beyond what I thought I needed, and if ever she wasn't sure about something, she found the answer! On top of all this, I got the added bonus of having my placenta encapsulated (at no extra charge)! Elaine happened to get certified shortly after we met. My husband and I were so grateful for everything she did for us that we paid her more than what we originally agreed to. You really can't put a price on what she does, and I can’t say enough about how great she is. I whole-heartedly recommend her to anyone searching for a doula.
During the third trimester my husband and I decided that instead of delivering at the hospital, we wanted a midwife to deliver our baby at a birth center. Since this was my first pregnancy, I did not know what to expect and really wanted a doula that could support my husband and I. We received a handful of doula referrals but decided to go with Elaine. Choosing Elaine was the best decision we made in regards to our birth plan!
The first time we met Elaine, my husband and I were impressed. She was very organized, prepared, and brought up things we would have never considered. For example, she asked me to take a tour of the birth center and also visited our home so that she would know how to get there quickly when I started labor. More importantly, we felt her genuine, thoughtful, and caring spirit.
Elaine is very intuitive and provided continuous physical, emotional, and spiritual support before, during, and after labor. While I was experiencing intense contractions, Elaine rubbed my back and coached me to breathe calmly. The pain level dropped immensely! She asked questions to make sure I was comfortable and had everything I needed. Elaine was so in tune to me that even with very subtle signs, she knew when I was in transition (I didn't even know). My labor was very fast that I ended up giving birth at home instead of the birth center. Thank God for Elaine! She knew I was progressing a lot faster than it appeared and was able to communicate this to the midwife.
Elaine exceeded our expectations! My husband and I ended up paying her more than what we agreed to in the beginning because we were beyond satisfied! Elaine is an amazing woman. We felt her love, warmth, and kindness instantly. She is so thoughtful and provided us a very memorable birth experience. Words cannot express how much of a blessing she was to our family.
I learned of Elaine through a friend who told me that when she was in labor, Elaine's use of massage and pressure decreased her pain to a manageable level. She complemented the role of my friends husband; she in no way tried to "replace" the special role her husband had at the birth of their daughter, she respected and honored what he brought to the birth.
Elaine is indeed a strong woman; emotionally, physically and spiritually. She has a strength of character that I believe is a fruit of being a mother of five, battling cancer and supporting so many mothers during labor and delivery. It is this strength of character that was a great comfort to my husband and I while I labored at home, in the Swedish Hospital rotunda in the middle of the night, in triage, and finally in the delivery room.
Throughout my labor, having both Elaine and my husband as my support team proved invaluable. She supported my husband as much as she supported me and helped my husband & I to build memories we can look back on with fondness in the years to come.
Once we went to the hospital, Elaine walked with me for hours in the middle of the night, massaging my back and helping me to breath through each contraction, while my husband got some much needed rest. When the hospital sent me home because I wasn't progressing, Elaine came with us, spending the night in our guestroom and supporting us through the next day when my baby was in a painful position.
If you choose Elaine as your birth doula, you will be giving yourself the gift from the time you decide to work with her during your pregnancy until you are home with your dear little baby. When you need her, she will be there, supporting you and helping you build wonderful memories to share with your baby from pregnancy to delivery.
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